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Each episode dives into the emotional, physical, and financial burdens carried by those who experience infertility on their path to parenthood. Be it IVF, IUI, egg freezing, surrogacy, adoption, etc., the path is never the same and it can be long, painful, and lonely. It\u2019s our mission to give those struggling a platform to be heard, a community connection, and an opportunity to raise awareness of the 1 in 6 who, for many reasons, struggle with infertility.","episode_page_title":"Episode 205: Love & Surrogacy: A Broken Brown Egg AHA Grant Winner's Story","episode_embed_code":"<iframe title=\"Embed Player\" src=\"https:\/\/play.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/35995820\/height\/128\/theme\/modern\/size\/standard\/thumbnail\/yes\/custom-color\/ffffff\/time-start\/00:00:00\/playlist-height\/200\/direction\/backward\/download\/yes\/stats-code\/landing205\/font-color\/000000\" height=\"128\" width=\"100%\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"\" webkitallowfullscreen=\"true\" mozallowfullscreen=\"true\" oallowfullscreen=\"true\" msallowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border: none;\"><\/iframe> ","episode_details":"<span data-contrast=\"auto\">When Kristina and Lorenzo set out to build their family, they knew their path wouldn\u2019t be traditional. Kristina\u2019s complex medical history including epilepsy, <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/progyny.com\/education\/what-is-endometriosis\/\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">endometriosis<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\">, and thalassemia made pregnancy unsafe, but that didn\u2019t stop them from pursuing their dream of having a child.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"auto\">In this episode, they share their deeply personal journey of sacrifice in pursuit of a surrogate\u2014highlighting the emotional highs and lows along the way, from downsizing their apartment to postponing their wedding. They open up about the importance of trust in the surrogacy process and the unwavering love and support they\u2019ve found in each other; Kristina and Lorenzo remind us there is more than one way to build a family.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"auto\">Thanks to the <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thebrokenbrownegg.org\/2024-aha-grant-recipients\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">AHA Grant<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> from <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/thebrokenbrownegg.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">The Broken Brown Egg<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> and Progyny, they are one step closer to making their dream a reality. They offer heartfelt advice for others navigating the complexities of infertility, emphasizing the power of advocacy, community, and perseverance.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"auto\">Applications for the latest cycle of AHA Grants can be found at <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thebrokenbrownegg.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">www.thebrokenbrownegg.org<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"auto\">, starting April 8<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">th<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">!<\/span>\r\n\r\n<b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Guests<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"none\">: Kristina King and Lorenzo Bellard, AHA Grant Recipients<\/span>\r\n\r\n<b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Host<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"none\">: Dan Bulger, Progyny<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"none\">For more information, visit Progyny\u2019s Podcast page and\u202f<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.progyny.com\/education\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Progyny\u2019s Education page<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u202ffor more resources. Be sure to follow us on Instagram, @ThisisInfertilityPodcast and use the #ThisisInfertility. Have a question, comment, or want to share your story? Email us at\u202f<\/span><a href=\"mailto:thisisinfertility@progyny.com\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">thisisinfertility@progyny.com<\/span><\/a><span data-contrast=\"none\">.<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"none\">Watch this episode on YouTube:<\/span> <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/lQNMKxLcvQs\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">https:\/\/youtu.be\/lQNMKxLcvQs<\/span><\/a>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"none\">Here are some highlights from this episode:<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Surrogacy &amp; Sacrifices<\/b><\/span>\r\n\r\n<div style=\"padding-left:40px;\"><b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Kristina King: <\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Unfortunately, the only medications that do control my seizures are not safe for carrying your own child, and then I also have endometriosis, fibroids, polyps, and a blood condition called thalassemia, and the endometriosis actually led to me having a pretty serious iron deficiency\u2014 anemia that right now is only kept at bay with an IUD. So, they sort of all work against each other. So, when we went into the process of thinking of building a family, we had to consult my regular OBGYN, my neurologist, my hematologist, my primary care physician, and then a reproductive endocrinologist, whether it was adoption or IVF or possibly surrogacy.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"auto\">I also chose to be kind of vocal about my journey because I wanted to show other people that you can do it just as a normal middle class young couple, we're trying our best. Downsized our apartment. We sold off all of our extra belongings that we didn't need. We are applying for grants. We have considered all of the loans we could take out. We are not having a wedding right now, because the money that we would have put towards our wedding is going towards the baby, the money we were going to put towards a house is going to the baby. So having a surrogacy journey, at least for us, equals a lot of sacrifice.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span>\r\n\r\n<span data-contrast=\"auto\">We're in the talks with someone now about surrogacy, but it's in the really early stages. I think I'm going to be one of those people who just knows when I meet the person. I think it's going to be a lot of intangibles. They say you have to be willing to trust this person to, you know, babysit the most important thing that you've ever created for nine months. So, definitely someone that we feel like we can trust.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Love &amp; Partnership<\/b><\/span>\r\n\r\n<div style=\"padding-left:40px;\"><b><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Lorenzo Bellard:<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> I've called her since a champ, because she is, she is a champion for this. And I think as we've gone through the process, she's felt even more compelled to be champion for others who've gone through this process. But she is very open about it. She's been very honest about her feelings and patient with me as I go through this process with her. Because it takes a lot of.. you have to remove your ego from a lot of this stuff as well. And I feel like she's been a great example around that. You have just been Miss Consistent through all of this.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span>\r\n\r\n<b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Kristina King:<\/span><\/b> <span data-contrast=\"auto\">I mean, I don't think I'll ever be able to find the words to thank you enough for the way you've been with me. I don't think there could be a more supportive partner. From I'm going to throw some fun little things out there for the camera, but from playing the Rocky music to get me out of the bedroom when I was crying for my first shot during IVF, to literally sleeping at my bedside when I was in the hospital for three days straight. Like you're everything. Like, there has not been a single time you like, have not been there, like you are just... You're such a rock. And I know that I get overwhelmed a lot because I want this baby right now but the great part about you is that you calm me down, and I am so confident that we will have this baby one day that it makes me able to stay the course.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{}\">\u00a0<\/span>\r\n<\/div>\r\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Broken Brown Egg \u2014 AHA Grant<\/b><\/span>\r\n<div style=\"padding-left:40px;\">\r\n<b><span data-contrast=\"none\">Kristina King:<\/span><\/b><span data-contrast=\"auto\"> We are so lucky to be the recipients of the [BBE AHA] grant. 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