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I didn't mention that until they retrieve eggs, no one will know how many eggs will be retrieved in each cycle, or that there is also no clear wrong or right answer for just how many eggs a given person might need down the road. So, in reality, it is a complicated subject, there's a lot to consider. Fortunately, fertility doctors are readily available to walk you through the finer points. And for Progyny members, their patient care advocate is just a phone call away.<\/p>\r\n<strong><u>Your Journey, Your Choice<\/u><\/strong>\r\n\r\n08:31 \u2013 11:04\r\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><strong>Lola Lorber:<\/strong> So, what's a good result from an <a href=\"https:\/\/progyny.com\/education\/best-number-egg-retrieval\/\">egg retrieval<\/a> cycle? Is it 20 eggs? 15? Is 5 a good number? Well, it depends. It depends on the person's age, overall reproductive health and their family building goals. 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